3 Stylish Ways to Add Color to Your Work Outfit with Statement Jewelry
You want to look intentional. Stylish. Unforgettable.
But every time you reach for accessories, you default to the same safe pieces: gold hoops, silver studs, minimal chains.
And while they work—they don’t do much for your presence.
Here’s the truth: you don’t need to wear bright clothes to bring color into your outfit.
Sometimes, all it takes is a whisper of it.
If you're wondering how to wear colorful jewelry at work without overthinking it, here are 3 polished ways to let statement pieces speak—quietly, but powerfully.
1. Add a Pop of Bold Color with Vibrant Statement Jewelry
One of the easiest ways to brighten up your workwear is by choosing bold, colorful statement pieces. Think oversized earrings in turquoise, a chunky necklace in fuchsia, or a layered bracelet in sunshine yellow. These eye-catching accessories can instantly upgrade a neutral outfit—like a black dress or beige blouse—giving your look personality and polish.
Not only does bold jewelry help you stand out in the office, but it also allows you to express your personal style without compromising professionalism.
Style tip: Stick to one pop color and keep other accessories neutral for balance.
2. Match Your Statement Jewelry with Your Work Bag for a Coordinated Look
Want a polished, cohesive look? Try matching your jewelry with your handbag. Whether it's a structured tote or a sleek satchel, coordinating your jewelry color with your bag adds a layer of sophistication.
This subtle style move helps create harmony in your outfit and shows attention to detail—two things that always leave a strong impression in professional settings.
Style tip: Choose one color from your handbag—whether it's the main shade or a small accent—and echo that in your jewelry. For example, if your tote has gold hardware, wear a chunky gold bracelet or earrings for a sleek, coordinated look.
3. Complement Your Shoes with Matching Statement Jewelry
A clever way to tie your outfit together is to echo the color of your shoes with your statement jewelry. If you’re wearing burgundy pumps, try a bold necklace or cocktail ring in a similar hue. Wearing cobalt loafers? Add earrings in the same cool tone.
This method creates a balanced look, making your outfit feel intentional and put-together—perfect for the office or client meetings.
Style tip: This works best when your shoes are a fun or unexpected color. Match the tone rather than the exact shade for a modern look—for instance, pair rust-orange flats with amber earrings, or teal pumps with sea-green accessories.
💎 Micro-Shift Challenge:
Make one intentional style shift:
Wear a bold, colorful piece of statement jewelry to work.
It could be a vibrant necklace, oversized earrings, or a chunky bracelet—just make sure it adds a pop of color to your usual work outfit. Keep the rest of your look simple and let the jewelry speak.
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Colorful jewelry isn’t “extra.” It’s strategic.
It’s a way to express presence and polish without rethinking your whole outfit.
When chosen with intention, the right accessory can transform your look and the way you lead the room.
That’s the power of smart styling.
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3 Stylish Ways to Add Color to Your Work Look with a Blazer
Adding color to your workwear wardrobe is one of the most powerful ways to express your style while showing up with confidence and credibility. For mid-size and plus-size women in leadership, the right blazer outfit can instantly communicate polish, presence, and authority—without sacrificing personality.
Whether you're headed to a boardroom, speaking on stage, or leading a virtual team, here are three stylish and strategic ways to wear a colorful blazer to work—and feel completely aligned with your role and your body.
1. Wear a Statement Blazer with a Basic Neutral Top
If you're wondering how to style a colorful blazer, start by making it the centerpiece of your outfit. A statement blazer in a bold hue like cobalt, fuchsia, mustard, or emerald green can instantly elevate your look. Pair it with a basic neutral top—white, ivory, black, or taupe—to let the color take center stage.
This look is ideal for plus-size professionals who want to bring color into their wardrobe without overcomplicating their outfit. The result? A streamlined, high-impact look that commands attention and flatters your figure.
Bonus:
If you’re wondering how to style a neutral blazer without looking boring, this is the answer:
Use a saturated blouse as your secret style weapon.
2. Coordinate Your Blazer with Your Shoes
Want to look effortlessly pulled together? Try color coordinating your blazer and shoes. This doesn’t mean they need to match perfectly—just be in the same color family or complementary tones. A teal blazer paired with soft blue suede heels or a burgundy blazer worn with wine-toned ankle boots can add visual cohesion and style.
This tip works especially well for women in executive roles who want to look intentional without being overly trendy. It’s a subtle way to bring personality and polish into your workwear for plus-size and mid-size bodies.
These are ideal if you're looking for colorful blouses that still feel elevated—not distracting.
The goal is presence, not loudness.
3. Match Your Jewelry to Your Blazer Color
Accessories matter. For an elevated look, coordinate your jewelry with the color of your blazer. This could mean pairing a coral blazer with rose gold hoops or a navy blazer with sapphire studs. When your jewelry and blazer share color synergy, it pulls your look together beautifully.
This is a great tip for plus-size women leaders who want to create a signature style without always relying on prints or loud patterns. It’s refined, cohesive, and very wearable for day-to-day leadership settings.
Why this works:
The blazer tones it down.
The blouse brings it to life.
Together? A powerful, polished pairing that looks modern and intentional.
💡 Micro-Shift Challenge:
Choose one colorful blazer from your wardrobe this week and try one of the three strategies above.
Whether it’s matching your shoes, keeping your top neutral, or aligning your accessories—this small shift can make a big difference in how you feel and how others respond to your presence.
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If you’re stuck in a cycle of safe basics, this is your sign:
Color doesn’t have to be risky—it can be strategic.
And a single blouse under the right blazer?
It’s one of the smartest ways to look like you mean business.
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How to Style a Statement Bag for the Office: 3 Smart Color Moves
You want to walk into the office looking intentional, polished, and effortlessly put-together. But that basic black work bag you’ve been carrying for years?
It’s playing it safe—and playing it small.
Here’s the truth: your work bag isn’t just a utility item. It’s a core part of your visual identity. A smart style shift?
Swap out your neutral carryall for a bold, structured statement tote. It’s an instant confidence boost—and it speaks volumes before you say a word.
If you're wondering how to style a colorful handbag for the office without overthinking it, start here.
1. Style Bold Handbags with Professional Outfits
One of the easiest ways to style a bold tote for the office is to repeat its color subtly within your outfit. This technique creates a sense of visual cohesion and intentional styling, making the bag feel like a natural part of your overall look—not an afterthought.
Whether through tones, textures, or prints, aligning your outfit with the bag’s color brings balance and polish to your appearance.
Style tip: Choose one or two elements—like a top, blazer, or accessory—that reflect the bag’s tone to keep the coordination effortless and office-appropriate.
2. Match Your Work Bag and Shoes for Effortless Office Style
If you’re not into head-to-toe coordination, let your bag and shoes do the talking.
One of the easiest ways to style a bold tote for the office is to repeat its color subtly within your outfit. This technique creates a sense of visual cohesion and intentional styling, making the bag feel like a natural part of your overall look—not an afterthought.
Whether through tones, textures, or prints, aligning your outfit with the bag’s color brings balance and polish to your appearance.
Style Tip: Choose one or two elements—like a top, blazer, or accessory—that reflect the bag’s tone to keep the coordination effortless and office-appropriate.
3. Pair Your Tote with Subtle Jewelry for a Refined Work Outfit
For a subtle, elevated way to style your statement bag, connect its color to your jewelry or small accessories. This creates a refined sense of harmony without needing bold clothing choices, letting your look feel thoughtful yet understated.
It’s a smart way to bring color into professional outfits while keeping the overall vibe clean and cohesive.
Styling Tip: Choose accessories with similar tones or undertones to your bag—metal finishes, stones, or even a watch strap can make the connection feel seamless.
💼 Micro-Shift Challenge:
Ready to break up with your black bag (at least temporarily)?
Choose one bold handbag and carry it for a full workweek. You’ll be surprised how often you reach for it—and how often it gets compliments.
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This isn’t just about a bag.
It’s about showing up with intention, presence, and polish—without overcomplicating your morning.
The right tote can transform your look, your energy, and the impression you leave behind.
Now that’s what we call smart style.
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How to Coordinate Shoes with Your Outfit: 3 Stylish & Effortless Tips That Look Chic, Not Overdone
(Hint: This is about strategy, not matching.)
You want to look Polished. Strategic. Effortless.
But when it comes to adding color to your wardrobe, you’re stuck somewhere between “I don’t want to stand out too much” and “I want people to feel my presence.”
So you reach for the neutrals. Again.
And that outfit you spent time curating?
It feels… safe.
Not strong.
Here’s the truth: when done right, color isn’t loud—it’s leadership.
And one of the simplest ways to elevate your entire look without buying a new closet?
Letting your shoes and outfit speak to each other.
These are three easy (and powerful) ways to start.
1. Printed Top + Colorful Shoe
You already own that printed blouse that lights you up—but you always wear it with black pants and flats.
Why? Because it’s safe.
Instead, pull a color from the print and wear a coordinating shoe.
This instantly turns a passive outfit into a power move.
You’ll look like you planned it—not panic shopped it.
Micro-shift challenge: Look at your printed tops.
Which shoe in your closet pulls color from one? Try the pairing this week.
2. Colorful Topper + Anchoring Shoe
A blazer, cardigan, or structured jacket in a statement color adds presence instantly.
Now—tie that look together with a matching or tonal shoe.
This bookends your outfit—top and bottom—with polish.
Even if the rest is a simple white tee and trousers, this pairing says:
I know what I’m doing.
Quick tip: Stick to one focal color. Keep accessories minimal and let the color do the work.
3. Statement Shoes + Echoed Top
Have a bold, printed or multi-color shoe you never wear because “nothing matches”?
Flip the script.
Pick one color in the shoe and echo it in your top.
Suddenly, the whole look feels thoughtful—not random.
And that shoe becomes your new signature.
This is how color stops being “extra” and starts feeling like edge.
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These aren’t outfit hacks.
They’re strategic shifts that reflect how you want to be seen.
When you stop defaulting to safe basics and start pairing color with intention?
You build a presence that feels aligned—and unforgettable.
👉 Want to go deeper? Catch the Dress for Impact Masterclass to see exactly how to elevate your wardrobe with presence, polish, and strategy.
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How to attract dream clients online with your personal style
The good old boys way of marketing doesn’t speak to the savvy empowered women you want to work with… but how exactly do you connect with busy sophisticated women that you will to fill your calendar with… and could see yourself opening a bottle of wine on with on the weekend?
When I mention online presence and marketing… you should see the look on my client’s faces, you would think I am trying to sell them some instant miracle voodoo that gets them to lose 30 lbs overnight… that’s because we have all been approached this way on social media being sold something. But that’s not what I’m talking about.
Now more than ever intelligent decision-making women are online look for solutions to their problems… everything from how do I get my kid to sleep in their own bed to I am being treated unfairly at work and I want to sue. Need proof… visit any mom, keto, or Peloton facebook group… lots of support and solutions at your fingertips!
So how are you going to connect with these fabulous women and not get lost in sea of online noise?
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1. Know your ideal client
You are a version of your ideal client… you have similar fears, likes, dislikes… you may not be in the exact position as her, but you may have been there at some point in your life. How do you want to be marketed to? What creeps you out and what gets you wanting more? How do you like to connect with people online? What would get you to stop the scroll… a beautiful pair of shoes? A unique color combination? A candid picture of someone reading a book by an author you love? Think of marketing as dating or becoming friends with someone… what would make you go up to someone at an event and start a conversation with them? Show this in your marketing
2. Be Where Your Target Audience Is
The more your ideal clients get exposed to your brand, the more likely they are to follow you. That’s why you should find out where your customers spend most of their time on, be it online or offline, and then persistently interact with them in an authentic way.
3. Elevate Yourself through Personal Branding
As mentioned, people are attracted to those they can relate to. You can take advantage of that fact by creating a strong brand image that reflects your personality and core values. Your clothing, especially when showing pictures and videos of yourself on your website, social media, or video conference… is a huge part of your personal brand. When our eyes land on someone we form a first impression and 55% of that first impression is based on what you are wearing. Be sure to show your unique personality with your style to stand out.
4. Be Strategic and Consistent When it Comes to Style
Develop a consistent look when it comes to your personal style. Most people tend to think style is about always being new and different, but that is the furthest from the truth when it comes to personal branding. People develop a sense of loyalty to businesses that offer consistent quality. Create a brand color palette and signature style for your clothing and keep on showing up in those colors and styles. The idea is for your clients to rely on you and when they know what to expect from you… they will hire you to be their advocate.
5. Confidently Show off Your Value With Your Clothing
What can you offer to your ideal clients? How can you make their lives more comfortable or how do you solve a problem they are continuously encountering? You have to be confident and show up like a leader every day… not when you feel like it! Instead of simply talking about your values, show them to them through your clothing. If your client values innovation, you aren’t going to want to be wearing the black suit everyone else is wearing. If your client needs you to be sympathetic, your clothing should showcase someone that is compassionate. Know that your clothing is sending out messages and make sure they are in line with what your ideal client needs to hear!
Now that you know how you should be showing up online… get started, don’t wait until it’s perfect… Perfection is the enemy of creativity and these days you are going to need to be creative to stand out!
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How to Find Your Style When Times are Different
We are all in some sort of style rut simply because things are different. You might have your go-to outfits for the office or when presenting in front of a group of people, but that’s not the case anymore. What’s happening for us and the world right now makes your typical outfit feel different. Your clothing needs to serve a different purpose at this moment and you need it to support you in other ways.
It’s important to still feel confident in your clothes, now more than ever. So how do you get some pep back into your style step?
Take a look at what’s working in your closet
There are definitely a few items that you own that are in constant rotation to go out, run errands, or go to work. Maybe you’re not allowing yourself to wear them because you’re only at home. Well pull them out and let’s evaluate them!
1. You have something, right? There is something style-wise that you have going on. You can always wear and trust those go-to items, although you probably say “I don’t have clothes that support me to feel confident in my wardrobe.”
2. What is working about that those constant items? Is it their comfort level? That you’re able to wash them and not take them to the cleaners? Are you gravitating towards certain colors right now?
Take a look at what’s not working in your closet
1. What are you not wearing at the moment and why? Are you not wearing it because it’s not right for this moment (you’re not wearing sheath dresses to your dining room office), or do you actually not like those pieces (if they don’t make you feel good, I give you permission to get rid of them).
2. What do you not have enough of? Are you wearing the same two bright-colored tops over and over again, because you are no longer wearing dresses?
Maybe your wardrobe just needs some revamping to adjust to challenging times…
How to shop for clothing that you actually need and will wear
You should always take a look at your current closet prior to going shopping to get a true understanding of what is working and what isn’t working, so you are not shopping blindly. This will insure that your purchases will have an impact on your wardrobe as opposed to randomly buying the same thing that hasn’t worked in the past. This will put an end to the clothes that are hanging in your closet with the tags still on them.
Make a list of the items that you actually need
Let’s say you need a few tops to wear on zoom, a casual summer dress, and a pair of sandals that can be worn to a BBQ (you don’t want to get those heels stuck in the grass!). Write that down!
Figure out how much you are willing to spend before going shopping
Before you start shopping, decide how much money you are willing to spend on each piece. So, “x” amount for each top, “x” amount for the dress, and “x” amount for the sandals.
This is the key! As women, when we think of going shopping, we put ourselves in this mindset that we are going to spend too much money., so we start limiting ourselves and holding ourselves back from purchasing something that we truly love!
Shopping for clothes doesn’t have to be expensive
Shopping can be expensive if you buy a bunch of stuff that you don’t want or need, but If you are investing wisely, it’s never wasteful.
When you think about shopping this way it will never feel expensive.
Shopping mindset
It is also important to see what you are willing to spend a little more on and what you’re not willing to splurge for. The items you are willing to spend more on should be the items that will have the most impact on your wardrobe, promise that’s the case!
It’s so important to think about money when buying something. You can place a value on what each piece will do for you and your wardrobe. So, if you don’t like something that comes in the mail, simply return it instead of holding on to it just because “it’s okay.” Giving our clothing value gives us more control when we’re buying things, but more importantly it keeps us engaged with our style and makes it purposeful.
Spending wisely and purposefully makes our style not only look good, but feel good!
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Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed.
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What's Your Style Story?
What is your story with clothing?
That internal dialogue that you have about clothing
Having some additional time at home has given us some time to think about things a little differently. I've had many conversations with women about what getting dressed means to them and their relationship with their clothing.... and we are not talking about their superficial surface relationship with clothing. Clothing isn’t an acquaintance we nod and smirk at… clothing supports us, gives a glimpse at who we are, and is the largest form on non-verbal communication.
So, what is your style story?
We are laying on the couch, going deep and discussing all of the things.
Your internal dialogue that you have about clothing may sound something like this…
👉I love leather, but I shouldn’t wear leather pants to a meeting because it’s not conservative enough
👉 Florals are beautiful, but I don’t want to come off as too feminine
👉 Leopard makes me feel powerful, but I don’t want them to think I’m trying to look young
What makes these thoughts “my style story?”
These thoughts come from somewhere much deeper. They may come from a friend in high school that once mentioned your long neck, going to a religious school with a dress code, or a comment from a college boyfriend’s friend about how short your skirt is.
The memories of these stories may fade in our minds, but they are always there in our subconscious, they are in the fitting room with us, they are in our closets, and they are definitely in your eyes when we look in the mirror!
These are the stories that make us who we are… they mold us, give us strength, and make us unstoppable.
The most important part of our style story is to be aware of when it is helping us and when it is holding us back!
Notice what comes up when you have really strong feelings about clothing. If you love it or hate it, being uncomfortable means that you are at the edge of stepping into your highest self, it’s our 2 million year old brain trying to protect us from being hurt!
Remind yourself that these are just stories, limiting beliefs that hold us back. Have an honest conversation with yourself about your personal style, what you like, who you want to attract to you, who you want to look like. This isn’t always an easy process. I always have clients go through visioning exercises to see themselves without the stories. The end result is a remarkable blend of personal style and personal power!
In the words of Glennon Doyle “UNTAME your inner cheetah and remember your power... she’s in there!”
So what is your story with clothing? email me here to let me know!
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I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women.
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Use Your Wardrobe to Look Polished and Professional on Video
While we are practicing social distancing, what to wear on a video conference to appear polished and professional
Companies around the world are having employees work remotely. Whether you’re a newbie or Work From Home pro, being comfortable on video is important to stay productive.
It’s realistic to assume that shifting to the ‘home office’ will become the new normal for many of us for a while, given that the coronavirus has officially reached ‘pandemic’ status and we are practicing social distancing.
Now that you’re spending time on screen, it’s worthwhile considering what works on screen to give you the most credibility and the look of professionalism.
What to Wear on a Video Conference
Just like an in person meeting, when getting dressed think about how you want to be perceived on your video call. If it’s a business call and you want to be seen as more credible, confident and authoritative. Therefore you want to look polished, professional, and not wear anything that would distract from what you are trying to accomplish on your call.
Wearing patterns on a Video Conference
If you are looking for an easy to follow rule, on camera go for solids over patterns most of the time as they are easier to look at.
Large patterns can they can dominate and take attention away from your face and your message.
It’s also advised to avoid busy patterns, such as stripes, animal prints, or plaid. Not only are they highly distracting to the viewer, but they also appear distorted and dizzying on camera.
Even though florals and animal prints are extremely popular and the perfect way to show your personality, it’s best to keep them for in person meetings. A good tip to keep in mind when choosing a pattern is to try not to look like a jungle animal or your grandma’s couch!
How does color appear on video conferencing?
Colors like teal, cobalt, purple and coral pop on screen. Wearing a top in one of these bright shades will really warm up your face.
Avoid white, bright red and all-black tops on Video.
All three of these colors pose technical problems.
When wearing white the camera finds it hard to get the balance right causing a look of overexposure along with a distracting glow. A small amount of white is okay peeking out from under a blazer or a cardigan, but your best bet is to opt for a light blue
If your top/shirt is white, make sure it’s not see through… an outline or pattern of an undergarment would be very distracting for yours if you notice it during a call as well as those you’re chatting with.
Black poses a similar challenge…. the camera is confused by black causing the color to look too dark. The definition of your garment will be lost, so you’ll look shapeless.
Bright red sometimes “bleeds” on camera, giving off a slight, hazy halo.
How to accessorize on video conference calls
If you are in a business environment, a scarf can also work to add contrast and interest to your portrait area. Just make sure it’s not too bulky so that you don’t look like it’s overwhelming you!
You want to make sure that any jewelry isn’t distracting.
Make sure your jewelry isn’t overly sparkly to the point that it’s catching the light and creating a disco ball effect around the room.
Avoid big dangly earrings. They are fun but on a small screen when all we are seeing is your upper body, they can be distracting especially if they make any noise.
In fact be wary of noisy jewelry, clanking bracelets are also not advised on a video conference as your microphone will pick up and amplify these kinds of distracting noises.
A necklace can help to draw attention to your face, but this is not the time for it to be too huge and statement, which can detract from your message.
If you need to wear glasses make sure they have a non-reflective coating.
On Video Conferencing, it’s all about the fit
A blazer that’s too tight will have you tugging at it, either consciously or unconsciously, and create a distraction to the person on the other side of the screen.
The same can be said about any item of clothing that is ill-fitted, whether it’s too big or too small.
Clothing with too much drape and folds doesn’t look good on camera.
A collar is a good way of making yourself look professionally dressed when on screen, whether this is a shirt or blouse with a collar, or a jacket over your top, wearing a collar says you mean business.
A knit top with a soft jacket that fits well at the shoulders and front is a good option to look authoritative but approachable.
Make sure clothing doesn’t bunch up when you sit down, your garments should lie smooth and flat when sitting.
Items of clothing that should be exempt from your video conferencing wardrobe include:
Tank tops/ spaghetti strap tops
Low-cut tops
Crop tops
Anything sheer or mesh
Other Things to Consider When Being on a Video Conference
Beware of what your hands are doing. They need to be in frame as you speak, but steepling separates you from your audience.
Keep your head straight as it gives you a more authoritative appearance.
Poor body language will undermine your credibility very quickly on screen.
Look directly at the camera – position your own camera box right underneath the video camera so that you are not looking off to the side at yourself during a call. Looking away from the camera makes you appear disinterested or unengaged.
It’s very obvious when on a computer if you look away at something else on your screen, don’t undermine your credibility when on a video conference by looking at your phone, or doing other things while on the computer. Imagine you are in the same room and behave in the same way, giving the speaker your full attention.
Practice makes Perfect for Video Conferencing!
It’s definitely a good idea to try video conferencing with a friend to get feedback on lighting, camera position, lighting, background and outfit choice to make sure that you are presenting the image you want and one that doesn’t reduce your professional presence.
Do you feel like you’re more confident video conferencing? Please contact me here with any questions you still have about what to wear on video!
Since this is the direction the we are moving in, please share with post your colleagues, friends, and family to help them comfortably and confidently be able to get on a video meeting!
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I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women.
Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed.
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Using Jewelry to Enhance and Polish Your Outfits
For me, jewelry is very personal. My family owned a jewelry store when I was growing up and I worked corporately in the jewelry industry for 10 years before styling. I have a very emotional connection to jewelry. But as a stylist, jewelry is a powerful accessory with so many benefits and uses. I love getting jewelry as gifts, but I am particular about what I like and want because I know the importance of jewelry to my personal style. Jewelry is personal and can be such an important part of your wardrobe.
Jewelry means so many different things to so many different people. Some people love it, wear it, treasure it. Others don't care about it and can hardly be bothered to wear it. There are also a lot of people who don't know HOW to wear jewelry. Some people wear WAY too much. Others are afraid of looking gaudy or foolish, so they avoid it.
Why is jewelry so important?
Jewelry can be what completes an outfit. It can tie various pieces together and can make a look appear more polished. It helps to make you look like you got dressed purposefully, you didn't just throw on the first thing you touched. Jewelry makes it look like you put some thought into what you were wearing.
You can use it to accentuate your positive features. When you throw on a long necklace, it draws a person's eyes up and down, making you look thinner and longer right away. It draws attention away from the hips and the center of the body. Shorter necklaces and statement earrings draw attention to the face and away from any other parts of your body. Cuffs, bangles or other bracelets detract attention from your arms and chest and brings it to your hips. Wearing dainty pieces will make you look bigger, and if you're smaller wearing large pieces of jewelry will make you look weighed down. Figure out where you want to draw attention to and decide what you want to achieve with your look before choosing your jewelry.
Jewelry enhances more than just your features
Jewelry can also save an outfit that's not quite perfect. I've mentioned before that black is not a flattering color on anyone. It drains your face of its natural color. BUT, let's say your favorite dress is black and you're just not willing to give it up. An easy way to improve the dress is to throw on a colorful necklace.
Not only can jewelry impact your look, but it can also affect how you interact with others. If you're a person who likes to make a statement, jewelry is an excellent tool for that. There are enough unique pieces out there for you to find some fantastic pieces that create a statement about who YOU are and what you represent.
If you're someone who networks for work, charity, or social purposes, your jewelry can also be a conversation starter. For women who find it hard to start a conversation in networking situations, wearing something exciting like a unique piece of jewelry may inspire someone to ask about it, starting a natural conversation.
Don’t be afraid of wearing jewelry!
If you're worried about looking gaudy, or you're afraid of wearing too much jewelry, consider where you're going. You can tone it down for work but if you're going to a wedding or networking/social event, wear a little bit more attention-getting pieces. I’ve created to fabulous tool to ensure your outfits aren’t too much or too plain… but are just right. Click here to check it out.
My last piece of advice is to take some risks! Jewelry doesn't have to match anymore. There used to be a lot of rules against mixing metals or stone colors, but those rules are outdated. You can mix up, just make sure that the mixture makes sense with your outfit.
I want women to enjoy adding jewelry to their outfits and not see it has a nuisance. Reach out if you want some help sprucing up your wardrobe with jewelry or some new pieces for this season!
Welcome!
I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women.
Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed.
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!
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4 Ways to Confidently Style a Business Casual Outfit
Dress codes can be so confusing… especially when they are unclear. The idea of a business casual environment is meant to empower you and let you be creative, but what if the idea of being creative stresses you out?
My goal is to take all of the stress and confusion out of getting dressed. I’m all about taking the work out of dressing for work and sharing my best tips for dressing casually while still looking put together.
The idea of a business casual environment is meant to empower you and let you be creative, but what if the idea of being creative stresses you out?
Not having rules can lead to lots of questions and cause overwhelm and confusion. To quote Bene Brown “Clear is kind.” When are rules helpful? When are they restrictive? And of course, when can they be broken? This comes up a lot when we’re talking about personal and professional style, especially as more industries embrace a casual dress code — which often means less structure, and more confusion about what is office appropriate.
What is “Business Casual?”
Can you wear sneakers with a dress? Is a blazer always formal? How can you look relaxed but still refined? A casual dress code can be intimidating because it means different things to different people (like that guy in your office who wears shorts on Fridays), but the key to pulling off a casual look that doesn’t look sloppy is to focus on styling. Yep, like a well-worded email, it’s all in the details.
My goal is to take all of the stress and confusion out of getting dressed. I’m all about taking the work out of dressing for work and sharing my best tips for dressing casually while still looking put together.
1. Mix and Match Formalwear with Casualwear
Wearing formal items with more casual ones is the quickest way to make an outfit look and feel more relaxed. For every casual piece you put on, grab something a little more polished or upleved.
I love pairing a casual top, like a relaxed boyfriend shirt, with a pencil skirt…. Top it off with a statement necklace or a unique pair of earrings and you good to go.
Another high/low tip is to take a more formal outfit and bring it down a few inches — literally. For instance, a pair of tailored pants and a blouses are elevated by heels, but made more relaxed with a pair of sneakers. There are so many great hybrid sneaker/ shoe options that are out right now that can dress down your business outfit…
Check out a few of my client go to’s here…
If sneakers at the office aren’t your thing, try mixing casual and more formal fabrics. I love the look of a casual white t shirt with a more formal skirt or pair of pants. Which leads me to the next tip…
2. Make An Elevated T-Shirt Your Go-To Top
Yes, you can and should wear t-shirts to work especially when paired correctly. A simple t-shirt can take you from Monday through Friday, think of it like a blank canvas. You can add color, prints, whatever you want to do- it’s a necessity for your wardrobe.
A put-together, relaxed-but-refined wardrobe is full of basic tees, but they don’t have to be the regular cotton variety. More structured and polished knits, look just as crisp with jeans as they do with your suit. One thing I like to do with client’s pieces is to maximize their wear.
3. Trade in your blazer for a vest
Think of a vest as a “modern twist” on a blazer.
Vests are understandably a somewhat intimidating layering piece. If the proportions are off they can look unnecessary and fussy — and make you look bigger than you are. Here are some tips that will prevent you from looking like a crossing guard or a girl scout:
With a shorter vest, wearing a shirt that is noticeably longer helps balance the look. If you are petite, be careful that the top is not too long, as it will overwhelm your frame. Wearing this with a long-sleeve shirt is a great look.
A long vest is easy and forgiving to wear. Depending on your frame, you may need to have the vest tailored for the perfect length. A good seamstress can help you find that perfect length, but as a rule of thumb, consider having it be the same length as your favorite sheath dresses. Pairing a dress with a vest is a great look.
This isn't always an easy look to pull off, but if you're going to do it keep this one thing in mind: fit is key. Just like with a blazer the it fits your body,the better you will look. This may mean that the vest should be fitted at the waist or have a belt to create a waistline.
When you find a style that works for you, you'll find that vests make cool and creative layering pieces for a contemporary look.
4. Roll A Sleeve The Relaxed Way– by Leaving out the Cuff
When it comes to button downs, it’s the way you cuff a sleeve that really indicates what kind of business you’re getting into, as some cuffs look sloppy while others look purposeful. For a more formal look, a button down can be worn perfectly ironed and buttoned up under a suit jacket. But, for a more casual look, go a little oversized and unbutton the top two buttons, roll up the sleeves, and you’ll immediately look like someone who’s ready to get down and dirty. Another option is to leave the actual cuff out of your roll. When you roll up a sleeve, leave the cuff out of the roll, so the harder clothing parts are part of a casual action you are taking.
Another important tip for making your basic button downs look a little more purposefully relaxed. “Sizing is something you want to play with when you’re considering dressing in a relaxed format. If you are a true size 6, you might want to try a size 8 to give a little more ease. Especially with a button down- maybe you roll up a sleeve instead of getting your proper size. Another option is to try a more relaxed fit, like a boyfriend style.
Check out some boyfriend relaxed button downs below….
My Final Pointers for Confidently Dressing in a Business Casual Environment
Know your office — and yourself. If you’re more comfortable in formal clothes like sheath dresses (if you’re transitioning from a formal office to a casual one) try to add in fun shoes, jewelry, and other accessories to make your look more “business casual.” If you’re more comfortable in casual clothes like jeans, and want to dress it up, find things like comfortable sweater blazers to polish your casual look.
Seek a good balance between structured looks like sheath dresses, and more casual, unstructured looks, like waterfall cardigans, I advised a young woman seeking advice on how to dress in Silicon Valley. This is such a challenging environment to dress business casual because some people are dressed very casually and some people are dressed very formally.
Remember that professionalism comes from how you act as well as how you dress- so if you’re really freaked out, glide on the more conservative side until you are ready to start experimenting.
Is it okay to show your personal style at work? I say yes! showing your personal style in the office creates connection and starts conversation. Looking for ideas on how to appropriately show off your style in the office? Check this out.
I’m a firm believer in being true to yourself, knowing your limits, and what makes your feel comfortable and feel confident. Please make to always be yourself when getting dressed!
Welcome!
I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women.
Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed.
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!
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5 Ways to Bring Sexy Back into Your Wardrobe
It is so important to remember who you were before all of those obligations for so many reasons… you’re mom than a mom, more than a wife… you’re a dynamic powerhouse, whether or not you feel that way at the moment.
Just in time for valentine’s day… it’s time to get some sexy back into your wardrobe.
Do you ever look at yourself in the mirror or in pictures and think when did this happen?
When you were dating you had it going on… you wore cute, or dare we say, “sexy” outfits. You had time to go shopping and may have even had some fun planning what you were going to wear on a Saturday night. Between your family, work, and everything else you have going on you don’t have time or the “wear with all” to create an alluring outfit.
It’s time to bring sexy back into your wardrobe, it’s exactly what you’re missing!
It is so important to remember who you were before all of those obligations for so many reasons… you’re mom than a mom, more than a wife… you’re a dynamic powerhouse, whether or not you feel that way at the moment.
1. Show off your shape with your clothes
I’m not saying walk around with all your assets hanging out, but wearing figure flattering clothing is the key to enhancing your allure. It’s a common myth that wearing baggy clothing helps you look slimmer, but it’s actually the opposite.
Everyone has their own unique assets, so choose the clothes that best accentuate yours. Ask yourself what you love about yourself and learn how to show it off!
If you think your arms are sexy, fill your closet with sleeveless tops.
If you love the way your back looks, buy some tops and dresses that have open backs.
If your legs are your favorite body part, shorter skirts and skinny jeans are perfect for you.
2. Combine your casual clothing with sexier pieces
Incorporate some feel good pieces into your everyday wardrobe, so you feel great about yourself at a casual dinner and on a date night. Creating a balance between flirtatious and casual in your everyday life by mixing up lengths, styles, and fits. You can wear things that drapes for a casual look combined with something tight to add a bit of appeal, or you can show off your legs with a skirt while wearing a more modest top.
Combine a shorter skirt with a relaxed sweater or shorts with a baggy top tucked in
Pair a low cut shirt or a tight turtleneck with a pair of wide-leg pants or a jogger.
Throw on those jeans that accentuate your curves with a flowy top. You can also belt the top to show off your waist.
Wear an animal print, this fun and extremely popular print shows off your wild side.
3. Adding romantic textures to your outfit contribute to your sexy look
I recently wrote a post on how to create polished outfits, without looking like you’re trying to hard, if you missed it you can check it out here.
A favorite way to create outfit interest is to use texture like tweed, suede, and leather to name a few. There are a few textures that have send flirtatious messages.
Black pants are sexier when they're black leather or faux leather pants.
A lace top will allow you to subtly show some skin while still looking relaxed and casual.
Wearing a soft texture like cashmere is very appealing and makes someone want to touch you.
4. Yes! Red really is sexy
The power of red is real!
It has been proven time and again in studies that there are several biological factors that actually make women appear more attractive to men when wearing red and that women perceive men as being more dominant when wearing red. So yes, wearing red will scientifically make you sexier, even if it's something as casual as a t-shirt!
5. Being sexy can be effortless
Trying to be somebody you're not is never a good idea, and it's obvious to others. Instead of trying to change yourself, embrace what's naturally appealing about you. The more comfortable you appear, the sexier you'll look – no matter how casual your outfit is. If you're not a dress girl, you don't have to wear dresses to be sexy. Instead, throw on some figure flattering pants with a beautiful top, and step out with confidence.
When you’re confident and comfortable
you are attractive…
Both physically and mentally.
Don’t hesitate to be a little sexy!
When you haven’t been putting so much effort into being alluring, you may feel a little silly putting in the effort at the beginning. But then it comes to self love, a little goes a long way. You have to remember who you were before all the commitments piled up and how much fun you had! It won’t happen overnight. Take your time, and know that if it’s taking longer than you expected, it will just be even more worth it in the end. Keep going and don’t give up… those around you will appreciate your effort
Welcome!
I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women.
Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed.
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!
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How to Look Polished, But Not Like You're Trying too Hard
Getting dressed is all about blending in and standing out simultaneously. That fine line between being polished, but not looking like you're trying to hard. Not an easy task when you have about 10 other things on your plate at any given time. Here’s 5 ways a personal stylist uses to get excitement into a wardrobe
Getting dressed is all about blending in and standing out simultaneously. That fine line between being polished, but not looking like you're trying too hard. Not an easy task when you have about 10 other things on your plate at any given time.
How do we go about creating this perfect balance of fashion Yin and Yang? How do we look polished and professional, but not like we’re doing too much?
By having a foundation of go to classics that you are are able to mix and match and wear in a variety of ways.
Do you have those pieces in your closet? If you’re not sure, last weeks post that outlines those items... Check it out here if you missed it.
What about standing out, while not doing too much?
How do you create some excitement in your wardrobe without looking like you have put way too much effort?
By wearing something that is unique and in line with our personal style to add some drama to your look. If you need some help figuring out what your style is…. Check out this post.
Let’s think about it for a moment… you’re in a room and don’t know anyone… you look around the sea of black wrap dresses and you spot a women across the room in leopard pumps and a leather blazer. Even if you don’t particularly like animal print, she stands out and has given you a reason to go and speak with her… “wow those are some great shoes!”
So how do you add some pizzazz into your outfits, still feel like yourself, not feel like you are wearing a one-hit wonder, and avoid being known around the office as the lady with the hot pink polka dot top?
5 ways to add some excitement into your wardrobe
1. Bored with your clothes? Add excitement to your wardrobe with leather
Leather is one of those items that feels like a trend, but it’s definitely more than that. To me, leather is a way to make an outfit feel contemporary and modern, which is a great way to show that you are an innovator and a forward thinker. Of course, you don’t want to look like we’re carpooling on your Harley Davidson to the next networking lunch.
A sophisticated way to wear leather is when it’s a detail in with a formal piece like a blazer, a dress, or a cardigan. It is also appropriate to wear a leather pencil skirt or sheath dress, when the rest of your outfit is on the conservative side.
2. Bored with your clothes? Add excitement to your wardrobe with Texture
Texture is sometimes confused with pattern, but texture has more to do with the actual make up of the fabric of the garment., even though there is sometimes a pattern within the texture. Some examples of different textures are tweed, velvet, suede, and sateen.
Tweed is one of those love it or hate textures. I have some clients that stay away from it, because they feel that it is dowdy and too rigid. I have found that there are quite a few more relaxed tweed pieces available and incorporating them is a great way to polish an outfit.
One of my go-to ways to style texture is by mixing a variety of textures within a monochromatic outfit It is a great way to add dimension to what could be a boring outfit.
3. Bored with your clothes? Add excitement to your wardrobe with prints
Some women are overwhelmed by prints, while others have a safe one or two they will wear. I would say that clients are usually the most decisive when it comes to which print they like or disliker. They typically have a list of reasons why like don’t like the print (i.e. too whimsical, too girly, it makes me dizzy).
A go-to way to add some drama to a boring all black outfit is to pair it with a printed blazer… an instant outfit upgrade!
Have a printed top that maybe too busy for the office? The easiest way to tone done a pattern is to put a solid on top of it… this can take a top from overwhelming to just right.
4. Bored with your clothes? Add excitement to your wardrobe with color
There is a whole lot of information out there about color… which colors look good on you…. which colors you should wear when you want to look friendly vs. authoritative,… we will pause on that for now and you can contact me if you’d like to know more.
Most women’s closets are filled with neutral shades like black, grey, and navy… but there’s a place in every wardrobe for something a bit bolder—or a lot. The daily grind doesn’t have to be dull!
Try colors that you actually like. The beautiful thing about color is that it’s so individual and there are so many options. I like rich intense colors within that, I lean toward blues, purples, reds and pinks for no other reason than that I like them. I stay away from pastels, yellows, and orange because I don’t. And that’s okay! Many people love those shades.
If you only wears black but want to branch out, start small. Pick one color you like and buy something in that. How do you feel when you’re wearing an emerald green dress? Do you like the comments you get? Yes? Then buy something else!
5. Bored with your clothes… Add excitement to your wardrobe with fabulous shoes
The great thing about shoes is that they always fit and they are the perfect way to showcase your personal style. They are the a great way to dip your toes in the dramatic wardrobe pool… because you may be able to use a pair that you would typically wear on the weekend to the office.
There are so many directions you can go in when experimenting with unique shoes: you can wear a beautiful color, fun print, funky heel shape, or gorgeous embellishment.
The one thing I always say is.. be sure to bring whatever excitement you have on your shoes, back up to your face, so people are paying attention to what you have to say not staring at your feet while you’re speaking. This can easily be done with an necklace, earring, scarf, shirt, or lipstick.
Hopefully with these tips you’re able to create outfits that are polished, but don’t look like you’re trying to hard!
Which of the 5 ideas are you most exciting about experimenting with and how do you plan on incorporating them into your wardrobe! I can’t wait to hear from you… send me a message here.
Welcome!
I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women.
Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed.
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!
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Curious about how a personal stylist can help you? Let's Chat about it.
On our call we will discuss what's holding you back from being excited about getting dressed and showing up as the leader you were born to be. We'll discuss your personal challenges and talk about easy solutions.
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Does this season's jeans & boots have you confused?
Jeans and boots are a classic go to uniform for the winter… Today’s version of the look has gotten super chic and a little challenging to decode. Jeans are cropped, flared, embellished, or straight and boots are short, chunky, funky, or flat this season.
Jeans and boots are a classic go to uniform for the winter… Today’s version of the look has gotten super chic and a little challenging to decode. Jeans are cropped, flared, embellished, or straight and boots are short, chunky, funky, or flat this season.
Wear your jeans over your boots
I’ve been suggesting that straight leg jeans are more flattering than skinny jeans, but the questions always comes up…. what does do I wear with them? I suggest styling their jeans over your boots, with hemlines ranging from grazing just over the top of the boot to hanging down several inches. My favorite way to wear them is a little cropped giving attention to your awesome boots! Here are a few of my favorite boots to wear inside your jeans.
Tuck Your Jeans In Your Boots
This one is the trickiest of all in my opinion.
Do tuck your denim when it is very skinny at the ankle and will not bunch. It also has to be long enough to tuck.
Do tuck your denim when your boots have a wider opening at the top.
Don’t try to tuck your denim when your boots are very short (i.e. hit at your ankle), only when they are a bit taller.
Here are a few fab boots to tuck your jeans into.
Cropped Denim
This is perhaps the easiest way because your jeans do all the work for you. If you are wearing a cropped pair of jeans, they are already not going to conflict with your booties.
Do let your denim hit above your booties
Don’t let there be too much skin between the bottom of your jeans and the top of your booties. This may mean (depending on how cropped your jeans are) that you need a taller ankle bootie (one that hits above your ankle bone) or you can go for a more relaxed look with a little fold.
Here are some great booties to pair with a cropped jean.
Happy to help!
If you are still having trouble in front of the mirror, contact me for an in-person or virtual consultation on how to polish your style and dress your best. Our first half-hour together is complimentary. I look forward to helping you!
xo,
Melanie